My brother showed me this site through a link and reading some of your mail (the only word i can think of is abuse) that you have recieved I think it is probs best that I have my say also. I decided a long time ago that religion definitely wasn't for me, as it seems that religion is an active hater of women but I would not aim my hosility at peoples beliefs. It is comforting for a lot of people to believe that loved ones have moved on to a "better place" and people don't like to have this safety blanket removed... it was after all created to keep people in order and somewhat sane against the pointlessness of a lot of things. What needs to be sorted out however is religious texts, especially the Bible. The Bible is the most foul book i have ever had the misfortune of trying to read (and i am an avid reader). The Bible is full of prejudice, it's racist and sexist and generally promotes an active hatred of difference "Love your neighbour.... (unless he's a she, or another rac!